Sunday, February 28, 2016

We Are Prey


"He who finds a wife, finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord" - Proverbs 18:22

Wait on your Mr. Right. We invest time, energy, and love into a man that God never meant for us to be with in the first place. We refuse to walk away from a relationship "empty handed" so instead we continuously re-read this tired ass chapter of our life, that we call a "relationship." We shed tears over this chapter, as if we don't already know a fresh start is only a page away. We cannot continue to allow ourselves to settle for anything less than what we deserve. He inflicts the first initial scar, but we stick around just to be hurt again several times more. Then after 3 years, 2 STDs, and a plethora of pregnancy scares, we find ourselves thinking... why didn't I leave the first time. That's because we constantly knock on doors that God doesn't want us to open. We are often times left filling empty, abused, and mistreated. But half of that pain is caused by ourselves, our failure to listen to our minds instead of our heart, and failing to listen to that phenomenal sense of "woman's intuition."With all things comes trials and tribulations, even with the best relationship, just make sure its all worth it for the right Mr. Right.

3 comments:

  1. Still looking for my Mr Right! Love this post. But good things come to those who wait.

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  2. Waiting on a man is important. Although I haven't found my mr.right I know my time is coming. Right now I'm using this time to make sure that I am ready for him when he finds me

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